The weirdest parenting tips a child therapist has to offer!

We are all filled to the brim with obvious parenting tips and advice. Most of the time the challenge isn’t knowing what to do – but to have the patience and time to do it. With three kids – I have found that what works for one kid, completely backfires with another one! Parenting is not a one size fits all type of situation. 

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I find myself armed with a zillion parenting tools to pull from my tired, desperate tool box to get through the day. Some I favor more than others, but I have been known to completely empty my toolbox – searching desperately for more.


With this in mind – I offer you my 5 weirdest, wackiest parenting approaches – that often work in my home. They may not work for you – as each child is different – but more parenting tools can never hurt a desperate toolbox.


Let’s get started with the crazy shall we?


Use theme songs to get through the day


I am pretty sure this happened by accident, but it started to work. I always have songs in my head. My subconscious is often playing an internal soundtrack throughout the day. It is weird. I know.


Anyway, I noticed that my subconscious started to make theme songs for daily activities my children had to do. I started to sing them out loud to my kids. I had a song to wake up the kids, a song when they needed to take a bath, a song when we needed to leave and a song to go to bed. The lyrics and my voice aren’t going to make the billboard charts – but they serve their purpose.


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What I noticed, is that I didn’t have to nag my kids…as much. They would hear the song and I didn’t have to do my billion warnings. When they were sleeping, playing or dilly dallying around – when they heard me singing – they knew what was coming next. And surprisingly – it made our day smoother.


Compliment your kids for behaviors they aren’t doing….what?!


Okay – this one is going to sound pretty weird – but I started to do this and I was shocked by how it worked (for my kids anyway). I get that this may not work for everyone. Kids have to be people pleasers and not all children have that disposition.


Currently at least, my kids are people pleasers. Whenever they are not listening (not getting out of the bath, getting their clothes on, cleaning up their toys…I think I can go on forever). I just tell my child, “Thank you so much for getting out of the bath!” Or “What great cleaners! Thank you so much!” I usually get a weird look from my kids and then – shockingly – they do it. Not always, but enough for me to go woo-hoo into the toolbox you go!


Say okay when they tell you they are NOT going to do something.


This sounds like horrible advice – I will give you that. Again, out of desperation this came out of my mouth one day and has been in my special crazy toolbox ever since. When my kids defiantly declare to me, “I am not going to clean that up! That’s too much!” I calmly say, “Okay, then don’t.”


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They normally stare at me with big eyes and then I continue, “I guess I will get back into my pajamas since it looks like we aren’t going out today. I was looking forward to going to the zoo, but oh well.” And then I walk off. 9 times out of 10 – they quickly clean up and try to get me to stop putting my legs into my fuzzy pajamas.


When your kids talk disrespectfully – don’t address it – talk for them.


This is another bizarre and probably annoying parenting approach I have loved over the years. When my kids demand something with words that don’t sit well with me – I just restate the sentence how I would like it to be said.


For instance, when my four year old says, “I want milk!” I say, “Mommy, can I have some milk please.” After some time my kids now just naturally say please and thank you – probably to avoid my annoying banter, but oh well. It works for me.


Compliment your child when they say hurtful words to you.


And now for my last off the wall parenting tip. When your child says horrible things like, “I hate you” or “I wish I never had you as a parent” – give them the opposite response.


Luckily my kids, at least at this stage, don’t say these type of things to me often – but on the rare occasion They do – I respond with “That’s okay. I still love you.” Usually if kids are angry enough to shout these hurtful words, they are looking to hurt you.


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Reinforcing the behavior by acting like it hurts you doesn’t make much sense to me – so I kill the behavior with kindness. Often it ends up in tears, laughter or both!


Do you have a wacky parenting approach that is working for you? Share it with us in the comments below!


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102 responses to “5 of the Weirdest Parenting Tips a Child Therapist has to Offer”

  1. What fun and practical advice! My toddler is just now starting to act up so this article will help me a bunch in the future. Thanks!

  2. Stacey says:

    I also use your 4th tip -restating what my kids say in the way I would like it said. It works really well. I like the song idea too – going to try that one!

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      Thanks for stopping by Stacey. The singing works really well – maybe because I have a horrible voice and my kids want me to stop – so they listen. Hey, whatever works 🙂

  3. Christine Leeb says:

    I LOVE this article! I’m a former educator and feel so blessed to have learned some “weird” teacher tricks that transfer into parenting too, but I really enjoy these so much and will be sharing them on our 4Real Moms facebook page! Thanks for keeping it real but also giving such wonderful parenting advice!

  4. Betty says:

    Awesome suggestions. I recall as a young girl about 3 or 4 telling my father I hated him, when I was mad at him. He was so mild manner. He would talk to me quietly. I would end up crying and telling him I was so sorry.

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      I agree Betty – I think when we respond in a calm, non-emotional way we do not fuel our child’s hurt and anger. Thanks for reading 🙂

  5. Melanie says:

    Great list! One weird thing I do that seems to work is when I know I have a directive that my toddler will most likely not want to do, instead I gasp, make a surprised face, and pretend like I have a secret. I then find a new way to rephrase what I’m asking him to do and add a different twist to it. It works 90% of the time.

  6. Nicole says:

    When my girls were younger (now they are 4 & 5) I used to “beg” them to not grow by eating healthy food. For example, “Please don’t have too much milk. It will help you grow too tall and strong.” They would then be begging us for the healthy food. We still joke about growing too much when they are hesitant to eat something they should.

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      I love this! My kids are so consumed with growing taller right now. I am going to try it with them. Thanks for sharing!

  7. Amie says:

    We “race” up the stairs for nap/bedtime when our 3YO doesn’t want to go to bed. She wants to win every time and once she’s upstairs she’s less likely to refuse the rest of the routine. I can’t believe it’s worked for as long as it has… competitive much?
    I’ve also pretended regular clothes are costumes e.g. deep sea diver suits, astronaut helmets, etc… give it a theme and a setting and she’s much more willing to put it on.

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      Amie – these are awesome ideas! Such parental creativity! I love it! Thanks for sharing.

    • Purple Piggie says:

      This still works with my 8 year old! “Last one upstairs is a rotten dinosaur/ horrible singer/ unicorn fart/ whatever silly thing you can think up” and we race upstairs, me usually but not always last. Whatever works!

    • Heather says:

      The racing up the stairs things works awesome for my 2yo also! And recently we’ve begun turning his clothes into costumes. Black sweat suit is Batman, red outfit is his Red Wings Hockey costume, snow boots are his snowman boots, rain boots are his Batman boots (he LOVES Batman)…Most of his outfits have themes…or I get real excited and make one up and the child DOES NOT forget! LOL!

  8. Erin says:

    My daughter hates taking showers so rather than nagging. I told her that I wanted to play “Princess in the Rain”. She happily climbed in and pretended right along. The shampoo was magical and we made up a story to narrate the whole shower. Before we knew it she was done.

  9. Mali says:

    Oh yes, they work!
    When my 4 yrs old is not listening I say something like “chocolate” or one of my own words like “chapalululo” almost immediately she turns to me and say: what? what did you say? I got her attention! Now I can ask her to do what I need to be done… works most of the time!

  10. Dayna says:

    When my kids were toddlers, and they started to have a major fit because they didn’t want to go to bed, for example, I would repeat back what they were screaming – “You don’t want to go to bed”. Then they would stop crying and look at me and respond, ” Yeah”. Then I would say “you don’t want to go to bed” 2 more times allowing the child to respond both times. Then I would say why they needed to go to bed, and since they felt like they were being listened to, they would generally comply at that point. It worked great!

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      These are great tips! Thanks for sharing. I agree – when kids feel heard, they are more likely to calm down enough to hear what we have to say.

  11. Erin says:

    My younger kids work best when I give them missions or quests. “You have a mission: go find all the books in your room and put them on your bookshelf.” To keep them from arguing over who picked up which item, they each get their own mission so the other boy would get, “Your mission is to find all the Lego and put it in the Lego bin.”

  12. Jackie says:

    Since my little guy was about 3 (he’s 6 now), and I asked him to clean up his toys, I said I would time him to see how fast he could do it. As soon as I started to time him, he would race to clean up everything. This works for other stuff too – getting ready for bath, getting dressed. He loves to be “fast!”

  13. Sarah Trett says:

    Great article! When my daughter refuses to go to the bathroom for a bath, I go and start playing with her toys loudly. Not long before she follows me into the bathroom… I also use the singing one, I thank the wiggles and lah lah for that one 😉

  14. Tiffany says:

    I love what you said about validating the child’s emotions…..even if they are negative towards you. I think that letting them say no to you and see that it works for setting boudaries and letting them feel that it is ok to get mad at someone is very important for them to learn how to work through the emotions. I have a 3 (almost 4 yo) and I can see how much he needs to feel safe to get mad and express his anger.It is also equally important to show them that after the anger has calmed a little that you can go back to that person and talk about it and the angry episode is not going to stop the unconditional love.
    I grew up in a household where emotions (positive and negative) were not acknowledged and I have just learned this very important lesson as an adult, just in time to pass it on to my kids!

  15. These tips are directed at toddlers and young kids – but they work with teens too! 🙂
    I don’t sing much anymore though – too risky with all those phones around now.
    Weird tips work!

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      I agree Leah! I am also leery of the covert recording techniques of my 12 year old :-). You never know when my craziness will wind up on YouTube. Scary.

  16. Eva says:

    I’ve got one! When my kids say “no!” then I start chanting “no no no, yes yes yes, no no no…” in funny voices. It’s from the movie Singing in the Rain if you’ve seen it. It gets them giggling and then we go do the thing they didn’t want to do. =)

  17. Mariana says:

    I have two girls who sadly, still expect me to fetch for them, do everything for them, etc. And the most annoying thing is….they don’t even ask, they just say things like “I’m hungry” or “I’m thirsty”. So several months ago (after years of trying to get them to try to ask nicely, using their nice words for what they wanted), I said “ok, here’s the thing…since you aren’t actually asking me for anything and just saying things like ‘I’m thirsty’ is just stating a fact, I’m going to just tell you some random fact and we’ll see what happens”. So, when my 5 year old first said “I’m thirsty” (as she’s sat on the couch watching tv) I said “I have purple hair”. She turned around at me and looked at my with that deer in headlights look. You could literally see the wheels turning. Then she says “oh, Mommy, I’m thirsty, can I have some apple juice, please?”. So, just stating that simple fact (and it can be anything….”today is Sunday”, “Canada is a huge country”, “I love chocolate”, etc.) makes them stop and think and not only are they asking a question now….but they’re also using their nice words. It’s magic.
    PS. I’ve also started to get her and her 9 year old sister to fetch for themselves more because I really am tired and they ARE big enough but the above suggestion works with other things like bed time, eating what I want them to, etc.

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      Mariana – that is a great tip! Thanks for sharing.

      I agree – it is good to foster independence and have kids start to do things for themselves when possible.

    • Gina says:

      Since the kids were little and using terms like ” I am thirsty,” we would always respond with ” Hi Thirsty. Its nice to meet you. My name is Mommy.” Followed by a smile and a reminder to use their manners. When they were really little modeling worked better, “Can please have a drink?” And waiting for them to repeat. Just a side note: my son didn’t always think it was so funny and would respond with frustration, so modeling was very important for him. As they are a bit bigger, four and six, and getting more independent, i find that keeping snacks within their reach is important. I like using plastic cocktail cups on the lowest shelf of the fridge filled with washed and cut fruit or jello. Baggies are awesome for portion control on some items, but I like using the cups when I can because they are easy to wash and reuse. I also keep just enough juice boxes in the fridge for them (I keep the rest higher up in the cabinets). Cold bottled water is also easy to reach.Bananas and oranges are also easy grab items on the counter. This cuts down a lot of them asking for things to eat and drink since they are able to pick and choose when and what they would like to snack on. I also remember watching a program that would keep snacks in gallon sized ziplocks for each child so that the child could easily get their own snacks. Thanks for posting ur ideas. Always looking for away to change things up. I loved the ideas on singing. My son had a lot of trouble in transitioning and singing a song helped a lot in preparing him for one activity ending and another starting.

    • Jess says:

      I do this to my oldest. If he says “I’m thirsty” or “I want something to drink” I say something like “I want to win the lottery” and keep on with what I’m doing. Now he recognizes he needs to ask politely, but it was driving me crazy and simply correcting him wasn’t working. This weirdness has worked.

  18. Jessica says:

    My mother-in-law started this weird trick that kind of backfired, but still works!! We used to live with my inlaws and she would say “last one to fall asleep is the rotten egg!” Well, they WANTED to be the rotten egg. So now we say “first one to sleep is the rotten egg!” And the last one to sleep is the rotten pickle. They try to avoid being the rotten pickle LOL
    Love all these weird tips!!! <3

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      Ha! I gotta use some of these great quirky tips. Between unicorn farts and rotten pickles – I am hearing some awesome things to try. Thanks for sharing!

  19. Suzy says:

    Like your singing, I use rhymes. My 4 year old is leaning about rhymes in preschool, so it’s fun for her. My example: when its time to leave the house in the morning I call out coats and goats! They scramble to get their coats and call back the same thing. It makes for a more pleasant morning. Even my 19 month old goes for her coat.

  20. Tara says:

    We play Beat. It’s a game my dad started with my brother when he was little and refused to get dressed or was going at a snails pace – my brother is 43 now so it’s obviously been working in our family for awhile! Basically, some yells “Beat!” -usually the parent at first, but when the kids get the hang of it they never stop- then you both/all run around trying to get ready before the other person/people. If you ‘beat’ everyone and get ready first, you win! Works like a charm! Plus, it makes the morning more fun for everyone, and by the time your done with all that running around, I promise, you won’t need that second cup of coffee!

  21. Meghan Soukup says:

    My daughter always balked when it was teeth time. So I would get her to yell “aaahhhh!” She got out her frustration at first and then found it funny and that mouth position was perfect for me to brush. Later I would sing the “brush you teeth, round and round” song from the TV show when I was little. Now she loves the song and I sing while she brushes. Two rounds of it is enough for a good cleaning.

  22. Shana says:

    We play a game at bedtime when my daughter is having trouble getting to sleep. It is called “Who can keep their eyes shut the longest.” It is exactly what it sounds like. And amazingly enough, my daughter has never lost a round! We also have dressing races in the mornings. We make sure to lay our clothes out the night before and then we race to see who can be the first one dressed in the morning. This one has eliminated many morning battles. And anytime we want her to go get something or do something quickly a timing challenge usually does the trick.

  23. Lori says:

    I have custody of my two nephews. My 8 year old nephew has a series of disorders that have turned our process of getting dressed and brushing teeth into slow paced obstacles in the morning. We have found that using a game of speed racing is fun and competitive, but adding the element of surprise is a super fun twist. While my husband is in the shower we can hear the water running in the house. My job is to wake the nephews, hurry and dress them so they can hop into bed and trick their uncle. When the shower water stops, they get into high gear! I help them get dressed, and with shoes on and all they sneak back under the covers and pretend to be asleep. Uncle comes in and is “surprised” that they are still asleep, saying “What? Why aren’t they awake yet?” There is nothing more fun for them than to uncover themselves and say “Gotcha” or “Booyah!” as the trick is revealed. I do this on important days when time is of the essence for me. I win. They win. And out the door we go 🙂

  24. Barb Gray says:

    I absolutely love this … we have the good morning song already but I will add more now that I see how it could really work!

  25. Nicole says:

    I love the singing idea! The “clean up, clean up, everybody, everywhere” song always works, so why not use it for other undesirable tasks! (Sadly, it hasn’t helped with teeth, but I’m looking forward to trying it with other things!)

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      Singing is by far my favorite approach. I am not sure how my children feel though. Off tune is pretty much my only tune 🙂

  26. E plus Three says:

    I’ve always been a huge singer, or…warbler. The kids love to dance along and have even made up their own songs! I catch them singing to each other when it’s time to get dressed or clean up before nap.
    My boys sometimes get very caught up in pretend play (animals, Star Wars, etc) to the point of not responding when our play must come to an end. “kangaroos don’t wear seat belts, mama” is a quote I’ve heard in the past week. So I explained to them that we are going to have a special word for when pretend play must stop for whatever reason (someone got hurt, I have to pee, pick your poison, haha) . Ours is “WASABI” because it’s not only fun to say, but also easy to say but it catches their attention, being an uncommon word. They know when anyone says that word, they turn back into children (and me back into Mama) and patiently wait for pretending to resume.

  27. Christie says:

    This is from my husband’s book of tricks- to get a reluctant 2 year old to open up for tooth brushing he would start singing like Ariel giving her voice to Ursula “ahaaaa ahahaaaa” she would always open wide to join him and he could get the job done. And it was the cutest thing I’ve ever seen, to boot!

  28. Domonique at The Lazy Scholar Blog says:

    I’ve tried some of these with my 4 year-old, Eli. He is usually a kind and caring kid, but sometimes his emotions get the best of him and he says things to hurt me. When he does, I usually tell him that I still love him anyway. I want him to know that my love is not conditional.

    I am definitely going to try what you wrote about giving them a compliment for something they haven’t done yet. My boys are notorious for negotiating extra time in the bath at night. I’m going to use this trick to get them out next time.

  29. Meg says:

    My mom taught my toddlers ” you can’t touch it but you can smell it” when we were at the store one day! They thought it was so silly and fun that we still use it! It helps whenever there are things that you don’t want little hands to touch and watching them sniff things is pretty funny too!

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      Meg – that is hysterical! I am going to try this with my 4 year old. She loves smelling things anyway ?

  30. Nessa E. says:

    We use four of these five in our house and you are 100% correct…they work wonders!! We haven’t tried the complimenting when boorish behavior is presented, but we definitely will now. What a great idea, and it makes you as the parent feel good too (instead of always feeling like the evil troll parent!)! To expand on your theme song tip, we sing songs while brushing teeth, and we usually let him choose from an arsenal of songs that we’ve pre-chosen. The songs are all the right length in order to brush his teeth for two minutes. We wanted to start him off young getting the “feel” for what a two minute complete brush felt like. He loves hearing the songs, and it helps pass the time. Two minutes feels like an eternity when you’re JUST brushing! lol Another silly tip that works wonders with our son is “eating” his toys/clothes/etc. His items that he doesn’t put away disappear when we eat them (down our shirts or behind our backs). He knows we didn’t actually eat it, of course (he’s four), but it makes it silly and then he happily cleans up so we don’t “eat” any more toys. Silliness makes everything go smoother, at least in our house!! Thank you for the great tips, and for reinforcing that we are doing SOMETHING right (don’t we always think we’re doing it all wrong…?!?! lol).

  31. Aly says:

    I have an internal sound track too! My little guy is only 6 months, so many of these dont apply yet (though I have used some like saying “okay” to my nephews when I babysat them). I have begun singing or making up fun little rhymes for my son though. I sing when its naptime, I made up a lullaby for going to bed for the night, I have a silly rhyme for changing him (wiggle, wiggle, wiggle……wiggle out ‘yer PANTS!) etc. He seems to love it and I feel it helps him know what to expect even when he doesnt yet understand language. Thanks for these!

  32. becca says:

    I looove this! I do several things like the made up songs, unexpected responses, and such. My middle child started to really show her independence just before turning two. She would completely ignore commands to put things away…BUT I discovered she loved to show that she knew the right way to do things. Instead of saying “put this book away” I’d *ask* ” can you show me where this book belongs?” And her getting to teach mommy and daddy worked like a charm usually. Also, if my kindergartener says ” I don’t want to……” Whatever she is supposed to do, I validate her by saying “…and that’s okay. I understand that you don’t like (cleaning up, going inside, eating chicken, etc) but I need you to do it anyway, and I know that isn’t fun for you.” Sometimes it leads to discussions of a lot of jobs people do that aren’t pleasant

  33. Christina says:

    When my 2 yo gets angry about something silly and pouts, we pretend her underlip is a drawer and open and close it. It usually makes her laugh 🙂

    In the bath, when we wash her hair, we make her look after spiders on the ceiling (so her head is turned upwards) and make a story about a particular set of spiders and what they are doing, if we cant see them ?

  34. Sarah Anderson says:

    I like the tip to add a theme song to things you do throughout the day. My mother did this and it worked with me and my siblings until each of us turned 12 or so, then our grumpy rebellious stage started to kick in. It’s something that I would love to do with my kids during their younger years.

  35. Leslie says:

    When mine were younger they would say something like “I’m thirsty”, and I would look at them to acknowledge that they said something to me and they would repeat it a couple of times adding frustration to their voices and then I would say “that’s nice but I haven’t heard you asking for anything though”. The look I would get then the question would come out and I was always pleased to get what they had wanted. I didn’t do this all the time, but it worked.

  36. E.P. says:

    I do almost all of these with my kids, and I get the weirdest comments and such from people. I am also the parent of “two of the most well-behaved children”, according to almost every person I meet. Hey, sometimes the tricks onstage are not as elaborate behind the curtain, you know? Sometimes it’s quite simple.

  37. EML says:

    I also do some of these and got great ideas! Something I do when my 3 year old doesn’t want to do something, my sister in law taught me this, I narrate what I want he to do. For example, if I want her to clean up the pegs I start saying “and she picked up the blue one and then the green one” and so on or if I need a diaper I say wow she is running so fast that I can’t see her pink crocs!” She feels great!

  38. Morgan says:

    Ha! Love these tips! You have such unique methods of parenting, but they make so much sense and seem to work well for you! How we react to our children’s behavior determines how (or whether or not) they make a change in their attitude. Using these tactics clearly produces good results! Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom!

  39. crytal says:

    I have guardianship of my 3 year old nephew. He has some pretty severe behaviors do to some problems he had at home before coming to live with me. A trick I use for more extreme behavior (severe tantrums like throwing himself backwards into walls and major defients… ect). when his behavior is out of his control I say let me help you in a syrupy sweet voice. If he was told to pick up his toys for example and he refuses I’ll say thats ok I know you don’t want to pick up your toys, I’ll help you and I will take edon hand over hand and pick up the toys(almost like a child would hand over hand help a doll pick up toys) I thank him for picking up the toys when we were done as if he had done it himself. Now when I start the over nice I understand, let me help you th8ng. He says no no I can do it I’m a big boy!!!! And he rushes to do what I ask.

  40. Brittany says:

    I do something similar but not quite the same for the fourth one. When I don’t like how my kids are asking (or demanding) for something I always say “try again”. They know to slow down and ask politely. I love this because I only have to say two words and even my three year old understands to start over and ask politely.

  41. Eve N. says:

    When my 5 year old son starts acting up, I’ll feign a headache and he’ll play the doctor and give me a thorough examination. It sometimes comes with a free massage too!

  42. Denise says:

    #2 works!! Lol I have a class full of 3 year olds and every time they do something they are not supposed to do I thank them!! (Thank you listening to me or thank you for sitting cross cross apple sauce like I asked!!!)????

  43. Kristy says:

    Love these!! I also have songs I’ve made up for everything and never thought about how they help, just that they are fun! My trick, which usually catches other kids off guard at first, is when I am super tired or done with whatever behavior it is I don’t like, I make ridiculous threats. For example, I am going to tie you up in the tree upside down and beat you with a pool noodle!! Or burry them in a ball pit. Or something where I tickle them till they pee. They know when mommy starts making silly threats that I am at my limit and usually calm down. We learned also that having a morning playlist helps and we get at least two items from our morning routine done in each song. By the end of three fun songs, we are ready for the day! I am going to have to try these other ideas!

  44. Kari-Lynn says:

    I was a little surprised to find out that I am already a weird parent – I do all of these things already!
    Something else we’ve come up with is when my one particular daughter whines that she can’t find her shoes or her library book or her hoodie or whatever it is that she actually hasn’t been looking that hard for, I pull an imaginary magical “finder ball” from my pocket and wrap it up in her fist. She has to hold her fist in front of her and the “finder ball” will lead her to what she’s looking for. You would not believe how well this actually works!
    I’m trying to think of some other “weird” things I do but they’re so normal to us that I can’t think of them. Lol

    • Natasha Daniels says:

      Welcome to the weird parenting club Kari-Lynn ????! I love your finder idea. What a cute and effective idea. I am going to have to use that one! Thanks for sharing 🙂

    • 8Nicole says:

      Send that magic finder ball my way please! I have a 7 year old who can’t find anything she looks for and it usually takes me 2 seconds to find it.

  45. Christina says:

    The pajama tactic is pretty creative. Most parents wouldn’t think of it, and, yet, it’s worked so often. The theme song method seems just as effective.

  46. Natasha Daniels says:

    What a great approach Marina. I love how you did it in such a caring and gentle way – and yet it was very effective.

  47. Selene says:

    Wow, definitely some awesome advice! Being a therapist certainly helps you to understand things from a different perspective. Very helpful, thanks for sharing!

  48. Natasha Daniels says:

    Thanks Shawn!

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