3 Ways to Stop Whining and Baby Talk Dead in Its Tracks. Wouldn’t That be Nice?

3 Ways to Stop Whining and Baby Talk Dead in Its Tracks. Wouldn’t That be Nice?

“But mama I no want to go…” your child pleads with you, his bottom lip puffed out for effect.
“You have to go,” you firmly state.
“Noooo. I don’t wannnnt toooo!” Your child whines.
You know what will happen next. You’ve done this dance before. And frankly, you are tired of dancing. You want your child to stop whining. You want your child to talk like he isn’t still in diapers. You can’t stomach anymore baby talk and the whining is slowly crushing your soul. “Make it stop!” You scream silently in your head.

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Signs of Selective Mutism: When It Isn’t Just Shyness

Signs of Selective Mutism: When It Isn’t Just Shyness

The lady at the cash register smiles at your daughter. You think to yourself, “please don’t try to talk to her. Please just scan the next item.” But all your internal pleading falls on deaf ears. “What’s your name sweetie?” the checker asks in your daughter’s direction. Your daughter stares at the lady with big brown eyes. She blinks once, she blinks twice. There is a visual stare down that seems to last forever. And then there is the awkward silence that always follows. You’ve been here before. Maybe not in line 3 at the local grocery store, but yes, you know exactly how this is going to play out before it even begins.

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PSP 010: Parenting and Sleep Problems | Addressing bedtime fears

PSP 010: Parenting and Sleep Problems | Addressing bedtime fears

One of the biggest parenting issues I see in my therapy practice is sleep problems. Children are often afraid at bedtime. Learn what works and what doesn’t!

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Do You Want to Know How to Get Your Kids to Stop Lying? Don’t Do These 7 Things!

Do You Want to Know How to Get Your Kids to Stop Lying? Don’t Do These 7 Things!

He stares directly into your eyes and says, “I didn’t do it.” Chocolate smeared all over his face.

She said she just brushed her teeth, but you glare at her as you hold up her dry toothbrush. How can your kids lie directly to your face? Are you raising little sociopaths? Are they doomed to be pathological liars? Most likely not. Kids all have varying degrees of honesty. Some are super honest and others are…well, not so honest. But you can help more than you think.

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PSP 009: Parenting with Anxiety | How to Keep Your Own Anxiety Out of Your Parenting

PSP 009: Parenting with Anxiety | How to Keep Your Own Anxiety Out of Your Parenting

Do you struggle with your own anxiety? Do you worry you might “give” your child anxiety? Learn some tips to keep your own anxiety out of your parenting! Wouldn’t that be nice?

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5 Things Good Parents Do That Actually Hurts Self-Esteem and Self-Esteem Activities for Kids that Actually Work!

5 Things Good Parents Do That Actually Hurts Self-Esteem and Self-Esteem Activities for Kids that Actually Work!

We all want our kids to be the best version of themselves. Sometimes we want this so badly, we inadvertently create the opposite. Sometimes we need to take a step back and assess our own behavior. Learn what you should do and what you shouldn’t do! Also, explore self esteem activities for kids that actually works!

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Ask the Child Therapist Episode 20: Teaching Feelings to Kids Who Struggle to Express Emotions

Ask the Child Therapist Episode 20:  Teaching Feelings to Kids Who Struggle to Express Emotions

Do your kids shutdown when they’re upset? Teaching feelings and emotional intelligence to kids isn’t always a nice thing to do, for some it is a necessity.

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PSP 008: 5 Unrealistic Expectations People Place on Kids with ADHD

PSP 008: 5 Unrealistic Expectations People Place on Kids with ADHD

In this episode I will discuss 5 unrealistic expectations parents, teachers and well-intentioned friends and family place on kids with ADHD.

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Ask the Child Therapist Episode 19: We Fight Over Parenting! How are We Going to Survive?

Ask the Child Therapist Episode 19: We Fight Over Parenting! How are We Going to Survive?

Do you wonder how to get on the same page, or at least look like you do in front of your kids? Couples need to learn how to disagree over parenting in a more productive fashion. They need to learn how to put away their claws and fight over parenting out of ear shot of their kids. When couples can’t come together on how to parent there is only one person who suffers… the child. Put down your daggers and agree to a temporary peace offering while you watch this video.

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How to Help Kids Survive a Family Move

How to Help Kids Survive a Family Move

Moves happen. Life happens. But family moves don’t have to traumatize your child. Family moves don’t have to be forever ingrained in their memory as the worst childhood experience ever. It all depends on how you approach it.

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PSP 004: Parenting Kids Who Don’t Talk: A Child Therapist’s Secrets to Get Kids & Teens to Open Up

PSP 004: Parenting Kids Who Don’t Talk: A Child Therapist’s Secrets to Get Kids & Teens to Open Up

In this episode of AT Parenting Survival Podcast we are talking about how to get kids to open up. Kids who don’t talk can be frustrating! If you are parenting a child that won’t open up, try these child therapist trade secrets!

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PSP 002: 5 of The Weirdest Parenting Tips a Child Therapist has to Offer

PSP 002: 5 of The Weirdest Parenting Tips a Child Therapist has to Offer

Tired of discipline that doesn’t work? Tired of behavioral problems? In this episode of PSP, learn 5 of the weirdest, wackiest parenting tips a child therapist has to offer. The best part…they actually work!

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PSP 000: Welcome to AT Parenting Survival Podcast

PSP 000: Welcome to AT Parenting Survival Podcast

AT Parenting Survival Podcast Episode 000. A parenting podcast that helps you survive through the chaos of parenting one day at a time!

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The 13 Stages of Parenting: What Stage are You In?

The 13 Stages of Parenting: What Stage are You In?

Parenting is a roller coaster of emotions. You will pull your hair out, cry and love so hard you’ll forget about the first two. Buckle up and prepare for the 13 stages of parenting.

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Dear America, Your Breakup is Affecting Your Kids.

Dear America, Your Breakup is Affecting Your Kids.

Dear America,
I wanted to send this letter home because I am concerned about your kids. I know you are currently going through a breakup. It sounds like a particularly nasty split. You guys have been talking really poorly about each other. Spewing words of hate and oozing it onto your kids.

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