Explaining Anxiety to People Who Don’t Get it

How many times have you heard people say things like, “you just coddle him too much” or “you just need to be tougher with her!” Some other oldies but goodies are, “She doesn’t act that way for me” and “he’ll grow out of it. Don’t worry.” Sometimes explaining anxiety to people who don’t get it can make your head spin. Trust me, I get it. I have bitten my tongue so many times – I have callouses.


What about if those people are your other kids? What if you hear things like, “Why do you treat him like that?” or “If that was me I would totally get in trouble!” How can you explain anxiety to your other children so they can “get” their anxious sibling and maybe even help and not hurt the situation?

Some people don’t understand anxiety. Explaining anxiety to those that don’t get it can be a struggle. Let me help you with your verbal judo.

 

What if the people making those comments are your partner, your relatives, your closest friends. Even worse than that perhaps….your child’s teacher or the school administration.


As someone who explains anxiety for a living, I thought I would give you some of my verbal judo skills on the topic. I hope it helps!

 


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3 responses to “PSP 049: Explaining Anxiety to People Who Don’t Get it: Helping Siblings, Family & Friends”

  1. Anu says:

    Hi, great post, however I think you’re missing some new research and the root cause of why the serotonin is low or that parts of the brain are over/under-firing. Namely from body not getting the nutrients it needs to make theses hormones. From poor digestion, eating, food intolerances. People are finding relief from anxiety by addressing these issues. SO while its important to understand whats going on, and t address it for what it is at the moment, people need to know that you can and have addressed the root cause and released the anxiety instead of building a world around it.

  2. Maureen Reuther says:

    Always helpful and the timing of this podcast was PERFECT! I can’t thank you enough for all your help!

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